WordPress is not slow. Overloaded WordPress is slow. The stack I use to get client sites loading in under a second is boring, repeatable and mostly about restraint.
Google found that 53% of mobile visits get abandoned when a page takes more than three seconds. Speed is not a vanity metric, it is the first conversion feature. Here is the stack I run on every build.
Most slow WordPress sites are not missing a magic plugin, they are carrying twenty unnecessary ones. Every feature you decline to bolt on is a permanent speed upgrade that never needs updating.
Speed is the one design decision every visitor notices.
Under one second is a habit, not a stunt: measure with real-user data, fix the biggest offender, repeat. After a decade of builds, the checklist above has never failed to get a normal business site there.